5 Tips to Keep a Man’s Attention: Expert Relationship Advice

Dr. Serenity
April 13, 2023

Five Ways to Keep a Man Interested

It is not uncommon for people to excel at getting a man’s attention but fall short in keeping him interested in the long term. After the chase and wooing phase, the challenge is how to keep him and make him understand that you are worth holding on to. Authenticity is the best starting point, but there are other ways to keep a man interested, encourage him to appreciate you, and commit to a lasting relationship. Below are five proven ways to get on your man’s good side.

  1. Speak His Love Language

Discovering your man’s love language is a crucial step in keeping him interested. Suppose his love language is “words of affirmation.” In that case, no amount of dinner or gifts can replace hearing you vocalize your affection and appreciation for him. Once you know his love language, tailor your affections to his needs, and you will undoubtedly benefit from your efforts. If your man’s love language is words of affirmation, verbal appreciation and praise are paramount to him. Take a moment every day to tell him that you appreciate him and thank him. Additionally, spending quality time together without distractions is essential for someone who values quality time.

  1. Give Him Space

Giving your man space is a subtle yet effective way of keeping him interested. Everyone needs time to pursue hobbies, relax, and spend time with friends. Allocate a specific time each week for both of you to spend alone or with your friends. Remember that it is crucial to maintain your friendships even while in a relationship. Your friends will always be there when you need them, so do not take them for granted.

  1. Don’t Be His Mother (But Get Along with Her)

Although men often require some guidance, the last thing they need is a second mother. Nagging will only frustrate him and make him feel like a child. If you want him to do something, try asking him gently once or twice. Don’t make him feel like you’re pressuring him, and he’ll be more likely to do it. It’s also essential to get along with his mother, but be mindful not to overdo it. You don’t want to come off as trying too hard.

  1. Learn to Like What He Likes

You and your man are different, and those differences make your relationship unique. Understand that your man won’t always like what you like, and that’s okay. Trying to force him to like everything you like is a recipe for disaster. Accept his interests and embrace the things that you both enjoy. Doing so will create a stronger bond between you and make him appreciate you more.

  1. Build a foundation for a future together.

Take your time and don’t rush into discussions about marriage. Allow your relationship to develop naturally and focus on getting to know each other better before bringing up the topic of marriage. This will give you both the opportunity to build a stronger foundation for your future together.

Understanding men can be challenging, and it’s not as easy as guessing their favorite food. Men and women often think differently, making relationships complex.

Author Dr. Serenity

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